The Positive Effects of Spanking

Well, I’m still having a high from my Sunday spanking.  I commented to Hermione that there is a definite effect on the attitude of the male spankee after a spanking.  In  my case, the ritual control exercised in our spanking ritual extends for many days after the spanking occurs.

As an example, on Monday I had an appointment at the hospital that serves our area.  I also badly needed to go to the hospital business office and try, again, to sort out an insurance debacle that has been dogging me for nearly a year.  I was dreading it.  My appointment took much longer than I had expected.  I had to be tested and then seen by a physician, who, was running behind.  When I finished with the appointment, I thought to myself, “I’ve spent too much time here.  I’m not going to deal with this insurance issue today.”  I left the hospital, got in my car and drove off.

Five minutes later I was thinking to myself, “C was good enough to put me through a spanking yesterday, even though she was recovering from a cold.  She really wants some resolution of this insurance issue, and will ask me about it when I get home.  I really can’t tell her I have put this off.”  Although, had I gone home that evening and told C I had put off dealing with the problem I might have gotten a spanking.  But that’s not fair to C, is it?

I turned around, went back to the hospital, and dealt with the problem.  As luck would have it, I got a very decent representative and we may have made some progress.

In the last few months I have been surprised by this connection between spanking and my tendency not to procrastinate in carrying out C’s wishes; I don’t procrastinate, at least not nearly as much.  I want to get things done for her.

Now this blog is about a real relationship and I always have to keep reality in mind.  I know C views this spanking ritual as a little role play game that she would probably not choose to play given other circumstances.  She gets better at it every time, but I know that she does it primarily because she loves me and wants to make me happy.

I, on the other hand, do want C’s control and I want a ritual that manifests the fact that I will submit to her control.  I view spanking as the perfect ritual for that goal.  The pain makes it real.  The remarkable thing is that the control somehow extends beyond the ritual.  I don’t quite understand that, but I suppose it may be a good thing.

Artist: possibly Sardax from T.A.K.S.A Yahoo Group