Friday, September 18, 2009

The Positive Effects of Spanking

Well, I’m still having a high from my Sunday spanking.  I commented to Hermione that there is a definite effect on the attitude of the male spankee after a spanking.  In  my case, the ritual control exercised in our spanking ritual extends for many days after the spanking occurs.

As an example, on Monday I had an appointment at the hospital that serves our area.  I also badly needed to go to the hospital business office and try, again, to sort out an insurance debacle that has been dogging me for nearly a year.  I was dreading it.  My appointment took much longer than I had expected.  I had to be tested and then seen by a physician, who, was running behind.  When I finished with the appointment, I thought to myself, “I’ve spent too much time here.  I’m not going to deal with this insurance issue today.”  I left the hospital, got in my car and drove off.

Five minutes later I was thinking to myself, “C was good enough to put me through a spanking yesterday, even though she was recovering from a cold.  She really wants some resolution of this insurance issue, and will ask me about it when I get home.  I really can’t tell her I have put this off.”  Although, had I gone home that evening and told C I had put off dealing with the problem I might have gotten a spanking.  But that’s not fair to C, is it?

I turned around, went back to the hospital, and dealt with the problem.  As luck would have it, I got a very decent representative and we may have made some progress.

In the last few months I have been surprised by this connection between spanking and my tendency not to procrastinate in carrying out C’s wishes; I don’t procrastinate, at least not nearly as much.  I want to get things done for her.

Now this blog is about a real relationship and I always have to keep reality in mind.  I know C views this spanking ritual as a little role play game that she would probably not choose to play given other circumstances.  She gets better at it every time, but I know that she does it primarily because she loves me and wants to make me happy.

I, on the other hand, do want C’s control and I want a ritual that manifests the fact that I will submit to her control.  I view spanking as the perfect ritual for that goal.  The pain makes it real.  The remarkable thing is that the control somehow extends beyond the ritual.  I don’t quite understand that, but I suppose it may be a good thing.

Artist: possibly Sardax from T.A.K.S.A Yahoo Group


Widgets said...

Good Morning throck:
We read these blogs together and talk about them before we answer. In my case I am the procrastinator and aj is the doer. Being in medicine I know what you are talking about: but you did that which is correct and faced the challenge and probably will get positive results.

Like C, I did not believe in spanking but after trying it learned that it pays off for the little effort I put in to keep aj happy the payoff for me in happiness and satisfaction is 100 times the effort. Also the results are my husband is very happy and caring for me. As C gets more into the spanking scene she will become more with it. As you communicate more on this the results will be more wonderful enjoyment.


Throck said...

Thanks Rachel and aj. I really appreciate your comments and support.

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