I have started this blog, SpankableHusband, because that is what I am; I am husband that is spankable but rarely spanked by his very vanilla wife. My goal is to try to understand, at some level, why I want this, and to develop my very loving wife into a very loving spanko wife, perhaps, with help from the community. I hope this blog will provide a vehicle to interact with the spanking community, a community in which I have lurked for many years now. I will use this blog to record some of my thoughts on the “spanking syndrome,” perhaps record some of my fantasies and spanking activities, and to communicate with others who have an interest in this activity. I am not a prolific communicator so I may not post frequently but I will post.
My last spanking was last Friday, July 17, and I had to ask for it. It was a bedtime spanking with a leather strap that I had ordered online about a year ago. I knelt on an ottoman at the end of the bed. My wife lowered my underwear and gave me about ten strokes with the strap. It hurt, but I craved more. My wife, however, is very concerned about hurting me and tends to stop as soon as my bottom turns a little red. So there’s the rub, how to get my wife to initiate a spanking, how to get the spanking I crave, and most importantly how to be sure that she gets something out of it as well.
I enjoyed the Friday spanking so much that it pushed me out of the lurkers’ world into the blogging world. My ultimate goal is to expand the horizons of my wife and myself to take optimum advantage of this wonderful kink.